BEFORE I WAS A MOM. . .
(author unknown)
Before I was a Mom, I made and ate hot meals.
I had unstained clothing. I had quiet conversations on the phone.
Before I was a Mom, I slept as late as I wanted.
I never worried about how late I got into bed.
I brushed my hair and my teeth everyday.
Before I was a Mom, I cleaned my house each day.
I never tripped over toys. I never forgot words to lullabies.
Before I was a Mom, I didn't worry whether or not my plants were poisonous.
I never thought about immunizations.
Before I was a Mom,
I had never been . . . puked on, pooped on, spit on, chewed on
peed on, or pinched by tiny fingers.
Before I was a Mom, I had complete control of my mind, thoughts and body.
I slept all night.
Before I was a Mom, I never held down a screaming child so that doctors could do tests or give shots. I never looked into teary eyes and cried. I never got gloriously happy over a simple grin.
I never sat up late hours at night watching a baby sleep.
Before I was a Mom, I never held a sleeping baby just because I didn't want to put it down.
I never felt my heart break into a million pieces when I couldn't stop the hurt. I never knew that something so small could affect my life so much. I never knew that I could love someone so much.
I never knew I would love being a Mom.
Before I was a Mom, I didn't know the feeling of having my heart outside my body.
I didn't know how special it could feel to feed a hungry baby. I didn't know that bond between a Mother and her child. I didn't know that something so small could make me feel so important.
I had never gotten up in the middle of the night every 10 minutes to make sure all was okay.
Before I was a Mom, I had never known . . . the warmth, the joy, the love, the heartache
the wonderment, or the satisfaction of being a Mom.
I didn't know I was capable of feeling so much . . . before I was a Mom.
"She watches over the ways of her household, and does not eat the bread of idleness. Her children rise up and call her blessed." (Proverbs 31:27-28a).
May God's richest blessings be with each of you mothers and mothers to be!
Courtesy of Rose Nguku, My Niece!....one day, you will feel this too and say the same, one day very soon!
That poem has captured motherhood so well. I can almost identify with every sentence. It is such an honour to be a mum and one's life is never the same.
ReplyDeleteI too salute other mums and mums to be.
Thanks Emer, and a biggest AMEN
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